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Teen Mom's Catelynn and Tyler Are "Taking a Pause" With Daughter Carly

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‘Teen Mom’ Star Catelynn Lowell Claims Her Daughter Carly’s Adoptive Parents Have Blocked Her

Sometimes when a door closes, you simply have to wait for it to open. 

Or at least that's the stance Teen Mom pair Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra are taking in regard to biological daughter Carly

Four months after Catelynn revealed her phone number had been blocked by the 15-year-old's adoptive parents Brandon Davis and Teresa Davis, "They definitely have 100 percent closed the adoption," Catelynn recently shared in an exclusive interview with E! News. "I'm still blocked and they recently told me to quit sending gifts because it was inappropriate and uncalled for, just a whole bunch of things." 

And while the Michigan-based duo haven't fully given up on forging a connection with Carly, they are trying a new tactic. 

Sitting down with their adoption counselor Dawn on the Feb. 6 episode of Teen Mom: The Next Chapter, the couple vented about being blocked by Brandon and Teresa, causing Dawn to play devil's advocate. 

"Could it be that if their opinion is different than yours and they've asked for space and they've asked for things to chill and it hasn't happened, then is it the only alternative that they can see?" Dawn reasoned. "And you guys, again, you have to own the fact that you have a lot of power." 

Because while Tyler argued they have no power, Dawn pointed to their combined 7.4 million Instagram followers. 

"When you put it out on the public platform, on social media," she noted, "I've read the comments. You guys have, too. You know that people just make up their own narrative." 

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Catelynn stressed that if the request for space was coming from Carly herself, "We've said 100 percent that we would step back." But, she added, "If it's coming out of Brandon and Teresa's fear and stuff, whether it be insecurity or she's getting older and they're not wanting contact, I will not stop reaching out. I will not stop sending her gifts. I will not do it." 

However, asked Dawn, "Is it fair to put that kind of pressure on a young teenager?" 

Besides, she reasoned, Carly could literally watch the proof that her biological parents never stopped fighting for her. 

"You’ve invested a lot in the relationship that Carly’s going to remember," said Dawn. "She can see the efforts. But, also, she’s in a really difficult position in the middle of the tug-of-war." So to lessen the negative impact, she continued, "Sometimes we have to take a step back." 

Initially, Catelynn wasn't interested in any sort of retreat. 

"So you just stay silent and don't reach out?" she asked. "It could be forever." The unfairness of the situation was a lot to take, she added, particularly when she entered an open adoption to avoid a life filled with what-ifs. 

"I don't think they understand what it does," Catelynn continued of Brandon and Teresa. "I’m like, 'Have you guys ever put yourself in my shoes of what it is like?' You’ve never had to give a child to somebody and live with that for the rest of your life. You know what I mean? It’s just not fair."

Unfortunately, Dawn noted, life rarely is. 

And the one strategy they'd yet to try "is just a pause," she reasoned. "Not forever. Just for a time. Just allow yourself to take a pause. We don’t know what tomorrow brings. We don’t know what three months from now is going to be." 

Finally convinced, Catelynn acknowledged, "We're just going to take a pause." Added Tyler, "For me, I'm taking a pause until initiation happens not from me." 

Instagram/Catelynn Lowell

Though, of course, that doesn't mean they'll stop thinking about Carly. 

At home with daughters Nova, 10, Vaeda, 5, and Rya, 3, "We've been very open and honest with our children that we're parenting about Carly and the decisions," Catelynn recently told E! News. "Nova will meet a stranger and tell them my whole adoption journey. And it's just because we've been so open with it."

Photos of Carly still line the house. "I think it's just normal for them," Catelynn shared. "But I do think that it is hard when they ask questions like, 'Why aren't we seeing her?' Because that, in turn, affects them too." 

That's not to say the trio doesn't have a sweet childhood at home with Mom and Dad. Keep reading to check out the family's cutest photos. 

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Father-Daughter Time

"I can't believe how fast she's growing," Tyler Balitierra shared on Instagram when celebrating Nova's last day of school. "Watching her grow up is the most beautiful thing I've ever witnessed & being her father is literally a dream come true! She's growing into such a beautiful, independent & fierce little girl & I can't wait to see what next year holds for her!" 

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Kisses for Days

There's nothing quite like a sibling bond. Fortunately, Catelynn Lowell captured this candid moment on social media

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Dad's Best Friends

"Blessed beyond belief that I had these 2 beautiful girls under my arms for date night last night!" Tyler Baltierra shared on Instagram after enjoying a quite night in. 

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Sisterly Bond

When celebrating Carly's 10th birthday, Tyler Baltierra shared a special photo of his eldest daughter he placed up for adoption with his wife. "10 years ago...your life changed so many others for the better & has blessed more lives than I can count, " he wrote. "We love you so much & hopefully get to see you soon baby girl. Happy Birthday Carly! #Adoption." 

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Best Big Sister

How is it being a big sister to Vaedra? Based on this photo, life is pretty darn sweet! 

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Daddy's girl

Tyler poses with his newborn daughter, Vaeda Luma. She was born on Feb 21. "Words can't describe the joy I feel when looking into that tiny angelic little face," he wrote on Instagram.

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All You Need Is Love

The family of four all grin at each other during a photo shoot. "This is my inspiration for everything! I love my family so much & there's nothing I wouldn't do for all of my girls!" Tyler wrote on Instagram.

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Big Sister Duties

Nova smiles and wraps her arm around her new baby sister. Catelynn captioned this photo on Instagram, "The love I have for these girls is SO unbelievably HUGE!! I'm so blessed to be the mommy to them!!!"

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Family Matters

The trio smiles during a chilly and windy day on the beach.

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Dino-Mite Day

Nova doesn't seem impressed or excited to meet the T-Rex standing behind her.

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Pretty in Pink

Catelynn and her daughter smile for a selfie.

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Hold Me Closer

Nova snuggles up with her dad for a sweet selfie.

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In Awe

Tyler, Catelynn and Nova all look on in fascination at fireworks on July 4, 2017.

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I've Got Your Back

NovaLee hitches a ride on their family walk on a sunny day.

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The throwback

Tyler and Catelynn smile as she holds their newborn baby, Carolyn. She was placed for open adoption in 2009.

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